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A high percentage of children with ADHD , particularly boys, also have Oppositional Defiant Disorder (ODD). ADHD alone can create friction within the family. ADHD, when combined with ODD, can make family life much more challenging. I have known parents who did not want to go home after work and face the frequent conflicts. Some were also concerned that if they did not go home, the problems might escalate even more. Family life with ADHD and ODD can become quite unhealthy for children and parents alike.

It is better to act than to react. In order to improve the situation it is a good idea to have a plan in place to improve family communication and cooperation. Consequences need to be clearly stated, and parents must follow through. I also want families to have fun together and accomplish goals as a team. I want people in families to treat each other with respect.

I have created a program specifically designed to encourage more peaceful families. The program takes into account the special needs of children with ADHD. I will be presenting the program in the near future in a series of teleconferences. I hope you will be able to attend.

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When medication helps, the effects can often be remarkable. It is easy to fall into the trap of putting all of the responsibility for the improvements on the medication and forgetting that the child is responsible for her/his own behavior.

Obviously the medication is an important part of the treatment. However you have to remember that children improve because they try to change. The medication does not make them act appropriately. It just makes it easier for them to improve if they try.

When we put all of the emphasis on the medication, the child can stop taking responsibility. Remember to emphasize that your child is doing better because he or she is trying rather than just focusing on the importance of the medication.

A child does not have to have all of the symptoms of ADHD in order to be diagnosed. Only 6 hyperactive/impulsive symptoms are needed to diagnose ADHD primarily hyperactive/impulsive.  The child needs 6 of the inattentive symptoms to be diagnosed with ADHD primarily inattentive.

If the child has six in each category, the combined ADHD can be diagnosed.  However, 3 year olds probably need to have 7 or 8 of the symptoms since more of the symptoms are normal at that age.  It is also important that the child be compared with his/her peers when deciding whether the symptoms are present.  Finally a child must also meet the impairment requirements in DSM IV in order to be diagnosed.  If the child is not significantly impaired, the diagnosis should not be given.

If you have concerns, I recommend that you take your child to be evaluated by a child psychologist or by his/her pediatrician.

~Dr. C